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H.O.U.S.E.™

A practical boundaries and relationship framework for protecting what matters, communicating clearly, and staying grounded in difficult relationships.

Who this is for

Anyone who wants to maintain boundaries without losing themselves — including professionals, entrepreneurs, parents and caregivers, students and young adults, families, leaders, educators, and people navigating personal relationships or transitions.

The problem it solves

Unclear expectations and difficult relationship patterns can pull people away from what matters. H.O.U.S.E.™ provides language and structure for setting boundaries, communicating clearly, and protecting connection without abandoning yourself.

The full ecosystem

Everything inside H.O.U.S.E.™

Some pieces are free, some are purchasable today, some come with membership, and some are being finalized. Here is the honest map.

Start here — free

  • H.O.U.S.E.™ Start Here GuideFree

    Orientation to the framework and your first conversation.

Individual resources

  • Boundary Pattern AssessmentAvailable soon

    Digital · PDF download.

  • Boundary-Building WorkbookAvailable soon

    Digital · PDF download. Printed edition coming soon.

  • Boundary Script LibraryAvailable soon

    Digital · PDF download.

  • Self-Paced Boundary JournalAvailable soon

    Digital · PDF download. Printed edition coming soon.

  • H.O.U.S.E.™ Boundary Cards — 75-Card DeckAvailable soon

    Digital · print-at-home PDF. Printed deck coming soon.

Bundles

The Boundary Starter Bundle is active and delivered instantly. The larger bundles are still being finalized.

  • H.O.U.S.E.™ Boundary Starter BundleAvailable now

    Start Here Guide, Boundary Pattern Assessment, and Boundary Script Library.

  • Complete Digital Boundary BundleComing soon
  • Complete Physical Boundary BundleComing soon

H.O.U.S.E.™ LIVE Intensive

Individual registration — $129 for a 90-minute live session.

  • H.O.U.S.E.™ LIVE IntensiveAvailable now

    $129 · 90-minute live guided boundary-building intensive. Recognize patterns, clarify responsibility, practice clear boundary language, prepare for pushback, and leave with a personal action plan using the H.O.U.S.E.™ Participant Packet. Individual registration; session details are sent after registration.

Workshops and group programs

  • H.O.U.S.E.™ workshops and implementation programmingBy request

    Facilitated learning for professional teams, families, community groups, educators, leaders, and organizations.

Facilitator materials

Facilitator and implementation resources are not public downloads.

  • H.O.U.S.E.™ Facilitator GuideMember access

    Available to LBD™ Professional members and certified facilitators.

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Frameworks

H.O.U.S.E.™ Boundary Pattern Assessment

Digital · PDF download

A guided assessment that surfaces the boundary patterns already operating in your work, your team, or your household.

$19.00
Available soon
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Frameworks

H.O.U.S.E.™ Boundary Script Library

Digital · PDF download

Ready-to-use language for difficult conversations at work, at home, in leadership, and across personal relationships.

$29.00
Available soon
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Frameworks

H.O.U.S.E.™ Boundary-Building Workbook

Digital · PDF download

A practical workbook for recognizing patterns, protecting what matters, communicating clearly, and maintaining boundaries without losing yourself.

$39.00
Available soon

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H.O.U.S.E.™ workshops for groups

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